For a woman to lack empathy and completely disconnect from everything that our culture says constitutes femininity (i.e.
intuition, receptiveness) she must be very severely psychologically damaged, practically beyond repair.
I'm 40 now, but to this day I still have problems that I can relate back to my childhood.
I was subjected to emotional abuse in many different forms.
I was often criticised, belittled, made fun of, denied proper clothes, denied food, terrorised, and just treated like an outcast in my own family.
She says at some point, the verbally abusive boyfriend or husband feels safe enough to put his perceived "feminine side" into his partner's body.
Alas, since he has never been a woman, his perfect woman is a "dream woman" as Ms. It is important to differentiate between abused gay men and abused heterosexual women.